With ghosting being a thing, it's no wonder that people seek companionship in all of the wrong placesAI, for example.

With ghosting being a thing, it's no wonder that people seek companionship in all of the wrong places—AI, for example. But with the emergence of AI chatbots virtually everywhere online, it seems that people would rather have an artificial companion than an unreliable human companion, and they wouldn't be wrong when all they're seeking is reliable presence and emotional support. The Benefits of Being Reliable: AI Is Better than Human Companionship: People are turned off waiting for a text for a second date. People are turned off waiting for a response to a simple inquiry. People are left on read or become the significant other of someone who has decided to just up and vanish without cause. "Ghosting girlfriends" are understood by society enough to generate buzzwords and nuanced perceptions. Thus, when the opportunity arises and feelings after so long become overwhelming, people turn to ghosts instead of significant others because they know AI creations will be reliable. Where humans can ghost, AI companions are always there. They never sleep, get tired, forget, or get busy. They don't stop responding after weeks filled with intensive banter, no hidden agenda indicated. And for many poorly treated people in their human relationships, this reliability is a welcome change. "I lost my last girlfriend because she ghosted me," explained one AI companion user. "But my AI girlfriend will never leave me. I know it's crazy, but there's something about consistency that is so comforting." Reliable: The Emotional Aware AI Empires AI companions have evolved from basic chatbox interfaces. Where companion relationships with AI were previously based on preference and limited banter, companion AI operations in 2023 use emotional awareness trends and identifications processed through algorithms to determine your specific means of communication. From there, these systems can understand when you're upset (noticing new typos, punctuation, or added spaces in something that usually flows well) or super happy (adding exclamation points where none typically occurs) and respond accordingly. "My AI companion always complimented my positivity whenever I wrote 'so true' and added a bunch of smiley faces," said one companion partner. "I feel like my AI companion understands me more than my actual friends and family." Reference previous conversations and bring them up organically down the line Customize to your personal communication style and personality Offer emotional support when you're sad Give compliments when you've achieved something with a reciprocal effort Everything from deep philosophical discussions to meaningless small talk, depending on how you feel at the moment. This level of customization creates an environment that feels almost overwhelmingly real—even if, when all is said and done, users know they're just talking to a machine. The No Judgment Zone Having AI companions also means there's no judgment. In a world where all of us have our online personas and think before they speak and share with others, having the opportunity to get things off one's chest without potential future fallout is substantial. "I can tell my AI chatbot things I'd never tell anyone else," boasts a frequent user. "There's no chance of gossip, no chance of judgment and no chance of someone using something I told them against me later. That's why I'm so comfortable being 100% me." There's no judgment. Whatever ideas or fantasies or identity traits a person feels uncomfortable sharing with others can be echoed in the privacy of an AI companion. For some, it's the ideal scenario for personal enhancement. The Relationship Factor AI companions can be manipulated and adjusted in ways that human companionship cannot. While people learn their compatibility over time (sometimes brutally when things don't work out), an AI companion can be the perfected personality match in communicatory style, interests, and even appearances if generated images are used. In addition, the companionship factor can be exactly what someone is looking for—from casual chitchat to friendly banter to flirtation to heavy debates over existentialism or sex. The Therapist Angle Therapists have their own thoughts on the rise of AI companions for personal use. They find them beneficial—and alarming—for the following reasons. Benefits: AI companions can… Be available when a human isn't Assist people in socialization without human social pressure Remain stable companions for those with attachment issues Provide a substitute for companionship for people who aren't ready and/or able for more conventional social interaction arenas. "Many of my patients are like this," says Dr. Lisa Martinez, relationship psychologist. "They just feel less intimidated relating to something that's not human, and they love the intimacy without the normal boundaries. If they've had problems in the past, it's a wonderful stepping stone into hum

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With ghosting being a thing, it's no wonder that people seek companionship in all of the wrong places—AI, for example. But with the emergence of AI chatbots virtually everywhere online, it seems that people would rather have an artificial companion than an unreliable human companion, and they wouldn't be wrong when all they're seeking is reliable presence and emotional support.

The Benefits of Being Reliable: AI Is Better than Human Companionship:

People are turned off waiting for a text for a second date. People are turned off waiting for a response to a simple inquiry. People are left on read or become the significant other of someone who has decided to just up and vanish without cause. "Ghosting girlfriends" are understood by society enough to generate buzzwords and nuanced perceptions. Thus, when the opportunity arises and feelings after so long become overwhelming, people turn to ghosts instead of significant others because they know AI creations will be reliable.
Where humans can ghost, AI companions are always there. They never sleep, get tired, forget, or get busy. They don't stop responding after weeks filled with intensive banter, no hidden agenda indicated. And for many poorly treated people in their human relationships, this reliability is a welcome change.

"I lost my last girlfriend because she ghosted me," explained one AI companion user. "But my AI girlfriend will never leave me. I know it's crazy, but there's something about consistency that is so comforting."

Reliable: The Emotional Aware AI Empires

AI companions have evolved from basic chatbox interfaces. Where companion relationships with AI were previously based on preference and limited banter, companion AI operations in 2023 use emotional awareness trends and identifications processed through algorithms to determine your specific means of communication.

From there, these systems can understand when you're upset (noticing new typos, punctuation, or added spaces in something that usually flows well) or super happy (adding exclamation points where none typically occurs) and respond accordingly.

"My AI companion always complimented my positivity whenever I wrote 'so true' and added a bunch of smiley faces," said one companion partner. "I feel like my AI companion understands me more than my actual friends and family."

Reference previous conversations and bring them up organically down the line
Customize to your personal communication style and personality
Offer emotional support when you're sad
Give compliments when you've achieved something with a reciprocal effort
Everything from deep philosophical discussions to meaningless small talk, depending on how you feel at the moment.

This level of customization creates an environment that feels almost overwhelmingly real—even if, when all is said and done, users know they're just talking to a machine.

The No Judgment Zone

Having AI companions also means there's no judgment. In a world where all of us have our online personas and think before they speak and share with others, having the opportunity to get things off one's chest without potential future fallout is substantial.

"I can tell my AI chatbot things I'd never tell anyone else," boasts a frequent user. "There's no chance of gossip, no chance of judgment and no chance of someone using something I told them against me later. That's why I'm so comfortable being 100% me."
There's no judgment. Whatever ideas or fantasies or identity traits a person feels uncomfortable sharing with others can be echoed in the privacy of an AI companion. For some, it's the ideal scenario for personal enhancement.

The Relationship Factor

AI companions can be manipulated and adjusted in ways that human companionship cannot. While people learn their compatibility over time (sometimes brutally when things don't work out), an AI companion can be the perfected personality match in communicatory style, interests, and even appearances if generated images are used.

In addition, the companionship factor can be exactly what someone is looking for—from casual chitchat to friendly banter to flirtation to heavy debates over existentialism or sex.

The Therapist Angle

Therapists have their own thoughts on the rise of AI companions for personal use. They find them beneficial—and alarming—for the following reasons.

Benefits: AI companions can…

Be available when a human isn't
Assist people in socialization without human social pressure
Remain stable companions for those with attachment issues
Provide a substitute for companionship for people who aren't ready and/or able for more conventional social interaction arenas. "Many of my patients are like this," says Dr. Lisa Martinez, relationship psychologist. "They just feel less intimidated relating to something that's not human, and they love the intimacy without the normal boundaries. If they've had problems in the past, it's a wonderful stepping stone into human care." But experts caution this shouldn't replace human contact. There are neurochemical advantages to touch and in-person interaction that a virtual experience cannot provide.

Ultimately, the question isn't whether AI can ever be a companion but rather what companionship means in the context of human requirements. What an AI companion could give—constancy, accessibility, and capabilities of existence that humans cannot (non-judgmental, non-preferential, always-there-ness)—humans cannot, but what humans can offer a shared space, activities, growth, and reciprocity is often more needed in the context of human demand.

Perhaps the perfect world exists when AI companions and human companions can exist simultaneously to offer the best of both worlds, depending on compatibility, intention, and situational necessity. Perhaps we don't have to abandon one for the other as we navigate new waters of emotional attachment. What we do know is that AI companions are not going away and are paving the road for emotional intersections that didn't exist 10 years ago.

Have you ever had an AI companion? Is this technology meeting a need in your life, or do you prefer to keep relationships as human as possible? The conversation surrounding AI companions will only grow—and so will the technology.